The good news: negative thoughts are not facts. They’re thoughts. And you can learn how to challenge negative thoughts in a way that’s groun

So many survivors carry an inner voice that says we weren’t enough, weren’t strong enough, should’ve done more. This anthem interrupts that.

Happiness is not something survivors have to earn, it’s something they deserve.

Survivors’ Anthem Series # 13: “This Is Me” by Keala Settle & The Greatest Showman Cast

Survivors’ Anthem Series # 12: “I Will Survive” - Gloria Gaynor

Memories can feel isolating. They live in a space where your mind questions itself. You wonder if you’re overreacting. You minimize it.

Reconnecting with "Breanna" from the books.

My appearance on The Through the Eyes of Survivors Podcast.

Survivors’ Anthem Series #8: “Warrior” - Avril Lavigne

Survivors' Anthem Series #5 "I'm OK" by Christina Aguilera

Finding joy without guilt is one of the most radical things a survivor can do.

This is how we break cycles. This is how we turn survival into connection. This is how hope spreads, thread by thread.

A tool to help with Anxiety

You don’t need permission to celebrate how far you’ve come.

Healing is not linear.

The Mask She Wears was written during a time when therapy asked me to do the hardest thing: slow down and name what I had spent a lifetime avoiding. It came from sessions filled with unpacking, of emotions, memories, and survival instincts that formed long before I understood them. It came from learning the language of feelings I was never taught, and from sitting with a version of myself shaped by a time period that has quietly, but also loudly, influenced my life. I didn’t

When I first sat down to write Because of Jane , I didn’t begin with a plan. I had started and restarted this story a million times in different ways. But then I saw her sitting in the corner. I began with a presence. Her name was Jane. She had always been there, quiet, waiting on the edge of the bed or tucked into the corner of a room. She was the one thing that never asked me to explain myself. Never asked me to be brave. Never asked me to be quiet, either. So when the sto

There are moments when reading a memoir feels less like reading someone else’s story and more like being quietly given permission to tell your own. Reading If You Would Have Told Me was one of those moments for me. While John Stamos’s life story is not the same as mine, the courage it took for him to speak openly about some of the hardest parts of his life, with raw honesty and without hiding behind perfection, was incredibly powerful. There was something deeply beautiful in